In our experience, when a person behaves abusively they destroy the safety which is the basis of any intimate relationship.  Hurtful words, frightening actions and intimidating gestures can destroy the foundation on which a good family life is built. Children may keep their concerns to themselves.  Partners might pretend things are better than they are […]

Everyday we engage in conversations with the people who surround us. Some of those conversations will be about the weather, the ball game or what’s happening in our lives right now. How much we share and what we discuss is determined by how well we know a person, how comfortable the topic is, and whether […]

Abuse is a deliberate behavior in which one person chooses to dominate, control or harm another. Perpetrators abuse against the will of victims, who never ask or choose to be abused. People being abused tend to know when behaviour is abusive. Trust your gut and remember you are the expert on your own life. Family […]